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Sounds like you are in a rough patch and I know that's tough...many of us have been there. The absolute best advice I can give you...and I mean this...is if you truly feel there is no other options please please please at least hold the phone correctly if you are going to film it.

It's really aggravating because the phone wants to correct it so it's always rotating sideways....ugh...hate that.

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Sounds like you are in a rough patch and I know that's tough...many of us have been there. The absolute best advice I can give you...and I mean this...is if you truly feel there is no other options please please please at least hold the phone correctly if you are going to film it.

It's really aggravating because the phone wants to correct it so it's always rotating sideways....ugh...hate that.

And maybe a shout out to the geek club as he's sailing through the air, in case it goes viral. Put us on the map.

 

Only in death would Mike finally send someone a coveted T-shirt.

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I know you dont want to hear it, but go to a focking AA meeting. As someone who has battled anxiety and depression my entire life, and been on and off the wagon for the last 4 years... I can tell you with 100% honestly I feel MUCH BETTER when Im dry. Every day is a challenge not to drink, but I get to celebrate a small win at the end of each of them.

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And as I noted previously, you have a daughter that needs you around. Good buddy of mine was about 16 when his dad committed suicide. Focked him up for a long time and he still carries the scars. DO NOT DO THAT TO YOUR DAUGHTER!

Absolutely this,I have 2 different friends whose parents committed suicide and it focked both of them up for life,in fact one of them just attempted suicide 3 months ago,thankfully she failed and thankfully for rehab and good friends she's been clean and sober for over 90 days and has a great new outlook on life,Don't leave a legacy like their parents and fock your kid all up.Love ya brother.

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I know you dont want to hear it, but go to a focking AA meeting. As someone who has battled anxiety and depression my entire life, and been on and off the wagon for the last 4 years... I can tell you with 100% honestly I feel MUCH BETTER when Im dry. Every day is a challenge not to drink, but I get to celebrate a small win at the end of each of them.

They even have them online. intherooms.com

 

Face to face is always better but it might give you some insight and wisdom from others who have been through hell as well and made it out.

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Time is a great healer. Give yourself a couple of weeks to get through this tough time.

 

You'll land on your feet (no pun) somewhere and come out of this better than ever.

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I hope youre just ripped and joking. There is no circumstance where your kid(s) woukd orefer you gone to having you in their lives. I think the suggestion to go to AA and dry out is a good one. Theres no way youre thinking clearly with the amount you drink. You should also talk to your wife or someone else important in your life about the way youve been feeling. Get some outside help.

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I know you dont want to hear it, but go to a focking AA meeting. As someone who has battled anxiety and depression my entire life, and been on and off the wagon for the last 4 years... I can tell you with 100% honestly I feel MUCH BETTER when Im dry. Every day is a challenge not to drink, but I get to celebrate a small win at the end of each of them.

Will be 6 years Super Bowls Sunday for me without alcohol. I do smoke the dank tho.

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This better not be a focking trolling expedition.

 

 

 

Suicide is viewed by those you leave behind as a selfish act. It also increases the odds of those you love committing suicide as well. Think of them first bro.

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I have a feeling shame is keeping him away from this thread. I hope he wasn't being serious for the sake of his life, but it's also pretty shameful if he was just trolling

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I hope youre just ripped and joking. There is no circumstance where your kid(s) woukd orefer you gone to having you in their lives. I think the suggestion to go to AA and dry out is a good one. Theres no way youre thinking clearly with the amount you drink. You should also talk to your wife or someone else important in your life about the way youve been feeling. Get some outside help.

Surprised to see you in a thread about bridges this soon.

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Surprised to see you in a thread about bridges this soon.

Really? :doh:

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Bunny, you stupid fock. At least have the decency to wait until we have our bi-weekly phone convo tonight.

I'm supposed to be your brotha from another mother, right? :mad:

 

I promise that i'll leave:

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I have a feeling shame is keeping him away from this thread. I hope he wasn't being serious for the sake of his life, but it's also pretty shameful if he was just trolling

I doubt he was trolling.

 

Drunk and feeling sorry for himself maybe.

 

Seems like a legit cry for help though. Hope he gets the help he needs ASAP. Theres no shame in it

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I doubt he was trolling.

 

Drunk and feeling sorry for himself maybe.

 

Seems like a legit cry for help though. Hope he gets the help he needs ASAP. Theres no shame in it

And where does everyone here seem to go for professional help first?

The focking Geek Club :doublethumbsup: :doh:

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I have a feeling shame is keeping him away from this thread. I hope he wasn't being serious for the sake of his life, but it's also pretty shameful if he was just trolling

This. He's not been a good drunk for a long while now. That's usually indicative.

 

Doesn't negate anything he's thinking or feeling that. Booze just removes the filters.

 

Doesn't negate nor lesson any of the supporting comments either.

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I get it Bunny. Man, do I get it. It's not about the boo hoo. It's really more like God damn I'm just too old to start over again. Just isn't the energy and it just ain't fuucking worth it.

 

Woulda gave my left nut to trade with rolio.

 

But if you got a kid, then all bets off. Sorry dude, them's the rules.

 

As someone who lost my brother to suicide, I'll tell you what she would go through; Every major milestone. Every birthday. Every birth. Every wedding. Every Christmas. All of it. No matter how happy the occasion, in the back of her head and not too far back ,mind you, will always be the thought 'damn, I wish my dad was here to enjoy it.'

 

People closest to her will see it. Just smile, but never quite enough. Never quite the same. She'll smile for other people. Just smile because that's what you do.

 

Even a great song, or a good day, or a funny movie, even years later, that's what she'll be thinking. That's not fuucking speculation. That's every god damn day for 13 years and 4 months to the day. And God damn, you wouldn't want to wish that on her. I know that.

 

And I haven't even mentioned that she will constantly relive every single slight, every cross word, every shiity thing teenage girls do and say, all of it. She'll spend the rest of her life thinking she would have, she could have, and worst of all, she should have.

 

She just fuucking should have...

 

And the only single person in the whole wide world who can forgive her, who can give her the Absolution she'll spend the rest of her life seeking?

 

And that's the hell of it all.

 

It won't get any better for her with time. In fact, when she does manage to go a week and then two and then a month without thinking about what happened years ago, she'll feel like hammered shiit and the worst kind of daughter in the whole wide world because she hadn't thought of you recently. And the guilt will be enough to damn near fuccking Crush her.

And she'll feel like the lowest, most selfish piece of shiit on the planet for that moment when of all times she should be happy.

 

That shiit doesn't fade. And it damn sure doesn't end. And her best day? Will be the day when she knows she doesn't have to feel that way one day longer. That will be your legacy to her.

 

I may suck at life.

 

But that much I swear to Christ I know.

 

And now you do too.

Forget about what you think you know........please listen to this guy! :thumbsup:

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Ive always said if i went the kill myseld route. Im going to a tall building.....popping an insane amount of pills, then im going to stab myself (leave knife in), quickly set myself on fire, jump, and blow my brains out midjump......ya know...just to give the coroner a few tthings to think about.

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Christ. i kept ignoring the thread thinking the title was about some netflix series or something.

 

BB get some help bud. $$ problems are temporary. you don't have to go through this alone. talk to someone quickly. i like having you around.

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Ive always said if i went the kill myseld route. Im going to a tall building.....popping an insane amount of pills, then im going to stab myself (leave knife in), quickly set myself on fire, jump, and blow my brains out midjump......ya know...just to give the coroner a few tthings to think about.

Sorry Bunny, but the above is fuckin hillarious :doublethumbsup:

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Sorry guys. Not trolling. I'm in a bad place. Really bad place.

 

Also, thanks.

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Sorry guys. Not trolling. I'm in a bad place. Really bad place.

 

Also, thanks.

If you need someone to talk to I'm here. So is everyone else here. Unless you want us to watch Bird Cage.

 

Love ya Bro.

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As far as the business goes, perhaps one of the lawyers could help with some advice with sort of bankruptcy. Walt Disney went bankrupt 7 times before building his dream.

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If you need someone to talk to I'm here. So is everyone else here. Unless you want us to watch Bird Cage.

 

Love ya Bro.

 

You take that back you sonofabitach! I like Gene Hackman and Allie McBeal

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I get it Bunny. Man, do I get it. It's not about the boo hoo. It's really more like God damn I'm just too old to start over again. Just isn't the energy and it just ain't fuucking worth it.

 

Woulda gave my left nut to trade with rolio.

 

But if you got a kid, then all bets off. Sorry dude, them's the rules.

 

As someone who lost my brother to suicide, I'll tell you what she would go through; Every major milestone. Every birthday. Every birth. Every wedding. Every Christmas. All of it. No matter how happy the occasion, in the back of her head and not too far back ,mind you, will always be the thought 'damn, I wish my dad was here to enjoy it.'

 

People closest to her will see it. Just smile, but never quite enough. Never quite the same. She'll smile for other people. Just smile because that's what you do.

 

Even a great song, or a good day, or a funny movie, even years later, that's what she'll be thinking. That's not fuucking speculation. That's every god damn day for 13 years and 4 months to the day. And God damn, you wouldn't want to wish that on her. I know that.

 

And I haven't even mentioned that she will constantly relive every single slight, every cross word, every shiity thing teenage girls do and say, all of it. She'll spend the rest of her life thinking she would have, she could have, and worst of all, she should have.

 

She just fuucking should have...

 

And the only single person in the whole wide world who can forgive her, who can give her the Absolution she'll spend the rest of her life seeking?

 

And that's the hell of it all.

 

It won't get any better for her with time. In fact, when she does manage to go a week and then two and then a month without thinking about what happened years ago, she'll feel like hammered shiit and the worst kind of daughter in the whole wide world because she hadn't thought of you recently. And the guilt will be enough to damn near fuccking Crush her.

And she'll feel like the lowest, most selfish piece of shiit on the planet for that moment when of all times she should be happy.

 

That shiit doesn't fade. And it damn sure doesn't end. And her best day? Will be the day when she knows she doesn't have to feel that way one day longer. That will be your legacy to her.

 

I may suck at life.

 

But that much I swear to Christ I know.

 

And now you do too.

Thanks for sharing that. Probably the realest I've read on the internet in a long time.

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Bunny isn't going to kill himself.

 

People who are serious about suicide just do it, they don't talk about it.

 

I have had a handful of friends, chicks and drug addicts mostly, go on and on about offing themselves, getting all their friends and family worked up, over nothing.

 

If Bunny was serious he would have eaten a bullet or slit his wrists in the tub, not started a thread about it.

 

......

 

Bunny, you are in a shitty spot, don't see a way out, that is it. A temporary situation. Worst case scenario you lose your business, your employees have to find new jobs, your ego takes a hit, and you spend a few months feeling sorry for yourself drinking or shacking up with fat chicks.

 

You have a daughter and a bunch of dudes on the internet who care about you, at minimum.

 

If your business is in dire straits you probably don't have your heart in it anyways, just in it out of obligation to other people. ###### that. This is your life.

 

If the business fails it fails.

 

Your business does not define you.

 

Go spend some time at church or a homeless shelter or in nature today. Take your daughter.

 

https://twloha.com/

 

This is an organization that has helped me and some people I know. (they have become a little commercialized over the years but the message is still true)

 

 

 

Illogical Truth:

 

https://twloha.com/blog/illogical-truth-2/

 

 

Welcome to Midnight (from the founder of TWLOHA):

 

https://twloha.com/blog/welcome-midnight/

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You take that back you sonofabitach! I like Gene Hackman and Allie McBeal

Would you just settle down, have yourself a glass of wine and a couple of Pirin tablets?

 

 

 

 

Agador Spartacus stole the show.

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drinking or shacking up with fat chicks.

 

 

Those are not mutually exclusive. :dunno:

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