joneo 556 Posted September 4, 2016 Scenario is that my grandfather and her grandfather were brothers (both deceased) I believe that makes us 3rd cousins?? We have talked to a couple of our relatives and got the "I don't think that would be a good idea" comment. If you were approached with this issue within your family, would you be ok with it or tell the couple "it's not a good idea" ? can size probably about a 34 C. For the record, we are both 50ish and would NOT be having any children. Let he hilarity ensue but I would appreciate some honest answers too. Edited: Also my mother is deceased and her mother is late stage Alzheimers. Their opinion can't be heard. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Djgb13 2,339 Posted September 4, 2016 Nope. If I can trace you to my family then it's a no Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
joneo 556 Posted September 4, 2016 Nope. If I can trace you to my family then it's a no Thanks for your input. If your brother approached you about this, would you hold a grudge? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kilroy69 1,235 Posted September 4, 2016 Hell I think it's encouraged in Alabama Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kutulu 1,666 Posted September 4, 2016 It's fine and if you get married you'll only need half the church Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Voltaire 5,280 Posted September 4, 2016 As far as we know, this will be the most normal dating relationship you've ever had. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IGotWorms 4,057 Posted September 4, 2016 For you, yes. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fandandy 3,313 Posted September 4, 2016 Imagine all the exciting role playing opportunities, or opportunity. Let's act like we're cousins. OK Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Drizzay 710 Posted September 4, 2016 Scenario is that my grandfather and her grandfather were brothers There is nothing wrong with having black ancestors, Joneo. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MTSkiBum 1,620 Posted September 4, 2016 No problem with this. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dain11279 968 Posted September 4, 2016 It's fine but you can't fock, that would be creepy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
joneo 556 Posted September 4, 2016 It's fine and if you get married you'll only need half the church Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
joneo 556 Posted September 4, 2016 A couple serious comments..thanks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mobb_deep 920 Posted September 4, 2016 If you've been on the planet 50 years and the best you can do is a relative, i say go for it. Everybody deserves to be happy. ETA: I'd fock the sense out of one of my first cousins. She's retarded hot. Wouldn't date her though. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Djgb13 2,339 Posted September 4, 2016 Had a girl and a guy I knew back in high school who dated and were third cousins. They tried to convince everyone it wasn't weird but failed to do so Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fandandy 3,313 Posted September 4, 2016 If you've been on the planet 50 years and the best you can do is a relative, i say go for it. Everybody deserves to be happy. ETA: I'd fock the ###### out of one of my my first cousins. She's retarded hot. I've always kinda had a thing for retarded chicks too but it just seems like fish in a barrel and I could never pull the trigger. That retard moan in bed though has gotta be pretty hot. BLEAHHYEAHHHBLAAAYAAAAAAA!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
joneo 556 Posted September 4, 2016 Had a girl and a guy I knew back in high school who dated and were third cousins. They tried to convince everyone it wasn't weird but failed to do so I think them being in their child bearing years might have been an issue. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rholio 339 Posted September 4, 2016 Third cousin, go for it. I wouldn't advertise the cousin bit, just be yourselves.... well, maybe not in your case. Just pretend to be normal-ish. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peenie 1,906 Posted September 4, 2016 If she is okay with it, who cares? You have one life, live it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 6,695 Posted September 4, 2016 I have similar cousins who are identical twins and were quite hot back in the day. I had some fantasies about that threesome as a teenager... would I have done it though? Well, yeah probably then. Now? I dunno, seems kinda weird. I think it depends on how close you were in the previous 49 years. Celebrate all of the holidays together? Too cousiny. Barely saw each other? Prolly OK. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tanatastic 2,062 Posted September 4, 2016 Yes it's fine. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wiffleball 4,789 Posted September 4, 2016 Honestly if you make each other happy It beats being alone And f*** the rest of the world. It's stupid Rule that has long since outlasted its usefulness. At 50 years old You're too old to give a s*** what anybody else thinks. Just be happy And make her happy. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 7,255 Posted September 4, 2016 Honestly if you make each other happy It beats being alone And f*** the rest of the world. It's stupid Rule that has long since outlasted its usefulness. At 50 years old You're too old to give a s*** what anybody else thinks. Just be happy And make her happy. But not too happy, cause she's your cousin, and that's just weird. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BufordT 431 Posted September 4, 2016 Einstein married his 2nd cousin. What does he know though? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BufordT 431 Posted September 4, 2016 If it makes you feel any better. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_coupled_cousins Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WhiteWonder 2,716 Posted September 4, 2016 No. There's plenty of fish in the sea, you don't need to dip your wick in a 3rd cousin. I'm sure at some point the lines and bloodlines get blurred enough that it would be alright. For example I have "family" in italy. I've never met them. I don't even know the exact lineage. It's my mother's side and my best guess is my great grandfather's brother or cousin. If I ever went over there to meet them (been once before but not to meet them) and there was an attractive girl within a decent age range of me... it would be my great grandfather's, cousins, daughters, daughters, daughter.. or some . At some point it gets to that whole argument that we are all related in some way. Still don't think id be comfortable Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fandandy 3,313 Posted September 4, 2016 Once your dinky's in her stinky I bet you'd be comfortable. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chronic Husker 85 Posted September 4, 2016 Shizz, if joneo is asking us, he's long had his mind made up. I think about my grandparents siblings and remember watching football and eating casserole during family get togethers with their grandkids. Couldn't imagine dating one. joneo's likely fumbled around handcuffing and assfocking her with an otherwise unused baton several times already. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 6,695 Posted September 4, 2016 Also I believe you are describing a second cousin: The children of first cousins share a second cousin relationship. Second cousins share great-grandparents. Your grandparents are siblings so they have the same parents, presumably. Good link describing the relationships: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
joneo 556 Posted September 4, 2016 I have similar cousins who are identical twins and were quite hot back in the day. I had some fantasies about that threesome as a teenager... would I have done it though? Well, yeah probably then. Now? I dunno, seems kinda weird. I think it depends on how close you were in the previous 49 years. Celebrate all of the holidays together? Too cousiny. Barely saw each other? Prolly OK. Up until 2 days ago, I had seen her probably 3 times my entire life. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
joneo 556 Posted September 4, 2016 Shizz, if joneo is asking us, he's long had his mind made up. joneo's likely fumbled around handcuffing and assfocking her with an otherwise unused baton several times already. Nope, haven't made my mind up (more so SHE hasn't made her mind up)......But I like how you think. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mungwater 596 Posted September 4, 2016 Someone once told me once that dating in your forties is much different than your twenties, in your twenties you brought out condoms, in your forties you bring lube. If you're going to fvck your cousin, I'd bring lube and condoms, and probably bug spray, if it's on sale at CVS Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hardcore troubadour 15,209 Posted September 4, 2016 One of Rudy Guilianis wives was his cousin of some sort. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MDC 7,255 Posted September 4, 2016 Any relationship involving joneo is creepy already. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerryskids 6,695 Posted September 4, 2016 Cousin: joneo baby, stick your thumb up my ass! joneo: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TimmySmith 2,782 Posted September 4, 2016 You are 2nd cousins. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ZeroTolerance 584 Posted September 5, 2016 If it makes you feel any better. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_coupled_cousins John F. Fitzgerald, former mayor of Boston and grandfather of John F. Kennedy, and his second cousin Mary Josephine Hannon If the Kennedy's did it you KNOW its f*cked up. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
titans&bucs&bearsohmy! 2,745 Posted September 5, 2016 Honestly if you make each other happy It beats being alone And f*** the rest of the world. It's stupid Rule that has long since outlasted its usefulness. At 50 years old You're too old to give a s*** what anybody else thinks. Just be happy And make her happy. First cousin? No. Too close. Weird. I don't even know who my second and third cousins are. Count me a vote in the "if it makes you happy, do it" camp. Fock the haters. And your cousin of course. Just be sure to never call her cuz in bed. And don't start playing the banjo. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Voltaire 5,280 Posted September 5, 2016 Elvis would have approved. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
joneo 556 Posted September 5, 2016 Cousin: joneo baby, stick your thumb up my ass! joneo: Why the sad face? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
