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Were you ever bullied?

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Not much for me, but in HS there was one DB, who always made little comments, flicked ears crap like that. Then during gym we were playing football he kept getting little cheap shots in the back,and more crap like that. In the locker room after football he made some comment and knocked my glasses off. I snapped went nuts, grabbed him by the neck lifted him up against a locker and choked the sh1t out of him for 5 or so seconds. Never said or did anything again.

 

I think most stories are the same right? Once you stand up and do something they leave you alone? Or could it be where you try to stand up and get your ass kicked and then it becomes worse?

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Not much. Maybe a few minor incidents here and there when I was a HS freshman or on the playground in elementary school, but nothing that's stuck with me. I mainly credit the school district I grew up in--teachers and parents worked pretty hard to make sure any bullying problems were nipped in the bud. I had a good group of friends too where we watched out for each other.

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Never bullied, got hazed in college, but it was a military school, you do have to have to play the game. Nothing sexual like MDC claims, just more physical and psychological stuff, once you realize you're not really going to get hurt and it's just a game, it isn't that bad.

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I went to a high school that was mostly hispanic and black. Of course I was bullied. I fought back and it stopped. Two guys I knew never fought back and the bullying continued through our senior year.

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only in prison

 

if people say they were never bullied, they are lying.

 

 

it could have been 1st grade, it could have been 11th grade. EVERYONE was bullied. to certain extents, yes, but they still were

 

how does our pu55y generation deal with being bullied? they kill themselves or they shoot up a school. Oh brotha. :rolleyes:

 

I weep for America

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I was teased about my last name, but that is it. It bothered me in junior high but I was over it by highschool. I was never physically bullied because like most geeks I am over 6' and in good shape. (both geeks I have met so far were also over 6')

 

I had my wife keep her last name and we are going to give the kids her last name instead of mine. She is asian though and if the kids turn out looking more white than asian they will be stuck with the last name Woo, but I am sure they will still be glad to have that last name.

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I was teased about my last name, but that is it. It bothered me in junior high but I was over it by highschool. I was never physically bullied because like most geeks I am over 6' and in good shape. (both geeks I have met so far were also over 6')

 

I had my wife keep her last name and we are going to give the kids her last name instead of mine. She is asian though and if the kids turn out looking more white than asian they will be stuck with the last name Woo, but I am sure they will still be glad to have that last name.

I think SkiBum would be a pretty cool last name. :dunno:

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Never bullied in school or on the playground. Was bullied by my friend Chris's older brother and his friends when we were thirteen. They actually used to beat the sh!t out of us and then buy us beer afterwards. Toughened us up for life but I hated those motherfawkers at the time. I told one of them during a beating that I was going to find him and kill when I got big enough to take him on. He finished beating the sh!t out of me that day and never did it again.

 

A few years ago I was at a Saints game and ran into him for the first time in years. I was as big as him now and he was getting fat. Fawker shook my hand and said "Chris's brother said ya'll were soft and needed some help. No hard feelings. We did to ya'll what was done to us when we were your age.. How about a beer?."

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Never bullied in school or on the playground. Was bullied by my friend Chris's older brother and his friends when we were thirteen. They actually used to beat the sh!t out of us and then buy us beer afterwards. Toughened us up for life but I hated those motherfawkers at the time. I told one of them during a beating that I was going to find him and kill when I got big enough to take him on. He finished beating the sh!t out of me that day and never did it again.

 

A few years ago I was at a Saints game and ran into him for the first time in years. I was as big as him now and he was getting fat. Fawker shook my hand and said "Chris's brother said ya'll were soft and needed some help. No hard feelings. We did to ya'll what was done to us when we were your age.. How about a beer?."

So...did you kill him?

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So...did you kill him?

 

 

It was the last Saints/Eagles playoff game. I let him live.

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It was the last Saints/Eagles playoff game. I let him live.

Should have killed him. :bandana:

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Minor stuff here and there mainly grade school,got hazed big time in college in the early 80's though during hell week of fraternity.

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I was always big (6 foot by age 12, 200 lbs around the same time, I'm now 6' 4" 250) but I was a shy, timid kid. Some bullies just instinctively zeroed in on me, even though I could have flattened them any time I chose.

One kid gave me hell for years. One time, I came into class. I had buck teeth. He had all 30 kids in class cut out strips of paper, hang them out of their mouths, and make fun of me at once. I came home in tears, and my parents took me to get braces soon thereafter, which I had on for six years afterward.

 

Later, in high school, the same focker was still giving me crap. Once, in the locker room in gym, him and two of his goons were pushing me around. Two of my friends were also present. I gave them the "you got my back" look, they nodded affirmative. I swear to god, I almost swung. I knew my parents wouldn't care when I got suspended, as they told me as much. But I didn't want my two friends to get suspended, and take the GPA hit that accompanies such. So I didn't.

 

Not pounding that focker into a pulp is one of the larger regrets of my life. If I could go back, I'd do it, consequences be damned.

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My gym teacher was prolly the biggest bully I had in High school. Witnessed this tool hit at least 3 kids, including myself. He was some body builder type guy. HUGE focking arms. When I was tagged by this focker, it was his arm hitting me as he was grabbing the kid next to me by the throat. Felt like someone hit me in the arm with a freaking ball bat.

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I got bullied some as a kid, as I was skinny and also smart and a good student, which makes an easy mark. Sometimes I didn't confront it and it lingered for a while; other times I confronted it and it ended. By the time I realized this connection it stopped happening because I was good enough in sports and cool enough I guess for a smart kid to not be a target for bullies. Nothing was overly traumatic in hindsight; it was just boys trying to establish their alpha-maleness.

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One guy in junior high was always picking at me. Just stupid little crap, annoying things like stepping on the back on my shoes when I was walking or "accidentally" knocking books out of my hands or sh1t like that. One day, I had enough and punched the guy in the face. We both got in a couple of shots, it was broken up and we were suspended. I wouldn't say I won the fight and he didn't either. Still, showing that I was willing to fight was enough for him to leave me alone and nobody else really bullied me.

 

I guess it helps that I played sports for all 4 years of high school and the guys on my teams would have my back if needed.

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I was usually the smallest kid in class, so I would imagine that I was bullied at some point. I was also friends with most everyone (jocks, geeks, stoners, etc.), so I don't think that it was anything that caused me issues. I am certainly not emotionally scarred by it.

 

I do worry about my oldest as he is small, immature, socially awkward and hangs out with the outcasts. :dunno:

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I was usually the smallest kid in class, so I would imagine that I was bullied at some point. I was also friends with most everyone (jocks, geeks, stoners, etc.), so I don't think that it was anything that caused me issues. I am certainly not emotionally scarred by it.

 

I do worry about my oldest as he is small, immature, socially awkward and hangs out with the outcasts. :dunno:

 

gutterboy is your son?

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Only freshman and only white guy on a D1 college basketball team. Highly recruited, walked in the door expected to compete for a starting job.

 

Not a pleasant first couple weeks. More fights in practice than I think I'd had my entire life.Established that I belonged and attempts at intimidation mostly disappeared. Resentment? Not so much.

 

Other than that, when I was 9 there was a kid a couple years older named Steve who lurked, looking for chances to push me around. Stood up to him one day and got my butt whipped, but it did slow down. Became more opportunistic rather than like clockwork. Kind of went our separate ways when he changed schools, though he lived right around the corner. About two years after the initial encounter I ran into him with some of his buddies and he started in. I was bigger and a lot more confident and it stopped that day. Made him apologize for being an a-hole in front of his friends before I'd let him up off the ground.

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Nope...

:lol:

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All the metal heads used to pick on me in Jr High because i liked to listen to Rap. nothing very serious. there was one kid that would just randomly push me in the halls and call me wigger, but I would just play it off. Everyone knew that he would get the sh!t beat out of him by his old man, so he was just taking out his aggression. I saw him a few years after graduation at a bar and he was trying to sell me weed. I just laughed at him and told him to grow up. He walked away with his head held low. :wave: focker.

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Someone tried to bully me once in high school. Once.

So how was it being home-schooled?

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I went to a high school that was mostly hispanic and black. Of course I was bullied. I fought back and it stopped. Two guys I knew never fought back and the bullying continued through our senior year.

 

yeah, black kids can be mean. they like to relentlessly joke and make fun those that are different.

(white kids are mean by socially excluding those that are different)

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On 11/7/2013 at 6:03 PM, peenie said:

 

yeah, black kids can be mean. they like to relentlessly joke and make fun those that are different.

(white kids are mean by socially excluding those that are different)

So black kids torture other kids while white kids leave different kids alone by respecting their differences? 

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Only that time you caught me with your wife

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Ollie Briggs used to make me wear lipstick and do the “tuck dance” in the locker room in middle school. Silence of the Lambs was very popular.

:cry: 

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I was sickly as a child and my father knew I would be bullied. He taught me to just punch them in the face and they would never bully me again. He was right. Bullies are cowards and freak out when you stand up to them. 

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Yes, I punched my bully in the face. He came to school with a black eye and told the other kids it was caused by a door knob. Everyone knows he's a d-bag, he still is, even to his parents (since passed) and sisters, one who committed suicide.

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2 minutes ago, Gepetto said:

Yes, I punched my bully in the face. He came to school with a black eye and told the other kids it was caused by a door knob. Everyone knows he's a d-bag, he still is, even to his parents (since passed) and sisters, one who committed suicide.

And he never bothered you again right. All mine suddenly wanted to be my friend after getting punched. 

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